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The whole scene is quite DRAMATIC.
The masses are slaves to this drama of the senses.
The drama, the excitement, is intoxicating.

Amongst the very FEW who are not pleased with this, NO ONE EVEN DARES to challenge the masses, since the frenzy is so intense, they would probably be MAULED by the MASSES for challenging them. There is no one there with enough GUTS or RESPECT to challenge what’s going on.

Not until MOSES descends down from the mountain, as he witnesses the scene from above and holds two stone tablets in his arms. The tablets contain LOGIC, they contain BOUNDARIES to our animal nature. Things like “though shall not kill” and “not coveting thy neighbor’s wife”, etc.

Plus, following normal social conventions shows you are playing it too safe, which means that you are not confident enough in yourself - that you are trying to make sure you don't rock the boat at all, to make sure she approves of you. Well, the irony is that all this *trying to make sure she approves of you* is the QUICKEST ROUTE TO ENSURING THAT SHE IS BORED BY YOU. You have to stop caring so much what women think, and just have FUN with it, so that your natural personality shows through.

I like to use the example of the movie THE MASK, With Jim Carrey. Remember how he actually had a cool funky Personality, but he couldn't unleash it unless He wore the mask. Eventually he realizes he doesn’t need the mask to be his cool self. So, when you are trying to *not rock the boat* You are actually REPRESSING YOUR REAL PERSONALITY. You have to unleash that REAL part of you and let it RUN FREE. THAT is what is INTERESTING and FUN about you.

When you stop giving a damn about what women think, you actually start to GET THEIR APPROVAL!

Now, of course, you should have basic social skills and make sure you dress casual but trendy and look your best and smell your best, but after that, HAVE FUN and TAKE CONTROL of the situation and PUSH the envelope- this is what women want! Once you see that the woman you are
talking to is giving you strong positive feedback, THIS IS THE TIME to make the *sale* and get her email/ number, etc.
For instance; My band played at this bar last weekend, and the waitress already knew me from the last time we played there. Right off the bat she was real happy to see me and every time our paths crossed she was touching me ( I didn't touch her back, though).

However she never got emotionally into what I said, I feel that all I did was give her a hard time. toward the end of the night when we were packing up, I was trying to get her to think it would be her idea to hang out at her place after we got done (another thing that is a problem for me... ??she thinks it's her idea??), but this never happened. I would very much like to see how all this works, but just can't seem to put it together. Can you please help me understand?

 

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